Designing the Destiny of Children

Each of us adults has achieved results in life that determine our satisfaction with life and our performance; results such as financial conditions, marriage, job, healthy relationships with family and friends, and more. We may assume that our current conditions happened by chance or that our destiny was shaped this way and that we must live with this situation for the rest of our lives. However, the reality you need to know is that our destiny, good or bad, was shaped during childhood by parents, teachers, school authorities, and those around us. In adulthood, based on the beliefs and schemas created for us, we subconsciously make right or wrong decisions and choices. These choices may unintentionally include mistakes that cause trouble, damage, and much suffering in our lives. The hopeful point is that by studying the book “Designing the Destiny of Children” and with awareness and understanding of these schemas, we can prevent the repetition of mistakes and sufferings in our lives. We can also excellently shape the destiny and fundamental beliefs of children or the children around us and prevent the formation of negative schemas such as dependency, worthlessness, narcissism, perfectionism, financial indiscipline, and more in their minds, drawing a bright future for them.